You might think that having your cock locked before you’re pegged sounds like fun, and you’d be absolutely right. It really can be, but wearing the right cage is really important to ensure that your experience is as pleasurable (or frustrating) as it can be.
“What the hell is pegging?” you might be thinking. If you’ve never heard of the term head over to our ultimate guide to pegging for an introduction to what is one of our favourite kinky activities. I’ll give you a hint, it involves what one of our friends refers to as “butt stuff”.
I’m going to say this right at the start; there isn’t a one size fits all solution to this. It comes down to personal preference, the dynamic you have with the person pegging you (or the person you’re pegging), the sex position you’re in and what you’d like the end result (the grand finale!) to look like. Don’t worry, we’ll cover all of this in detail.
What is vitally important, regardless of the cage that you choose, you need to make sure that it fits properly. There are multiple reasons for this. If there’s too much space at the end of the cage (the space between the end of your flaccid penis and the inner end of the device) you’ll have room to grow into it, which can pull on the back ring when you get, shall we say, excited. It hurts when this happens. Trust me. You don’t want this. Equally you don’t want to be stuffed into the cage as it will become painful when you get into a nice rhythm.
If you’re not sure what size you should wear please read through our chastity measurement guide. Work through it step by step and take your time to get the right size for you. You’ll thank me for it later. Not only will it mean that you’ll have a more comfortable and pleasurable experience, but it will save you money too.
With all of this in mind we can now explore some different chastity devices that we offer that Mistress K and I have used during our own pegging play. I’m going to discuss the different play scenarios and sex positions that they were used in and why she selected them for me to wear for each.
My favourite chastity cage to wear during pegging
Did you honestly think I wasn’t going to recommend the cage that we spent over 2 years developing for this type of play in mind? Of course not. It’s our Hera cage, part of our exclusive 3D printed Olympus collection (subtle enough plug?). But why is it an ideal choice? It’s simple; the kit is very lightweight, strong and comfortable.
If you measure correctly and wear a device that fits you well it should act like a sheath for your cock. It will keep your cock locked and inaccessible to be touched, though I’ve intentionally linked you to the barrel lock version so that it can be removed more quickly if your benevolent Goddess decides that she wants you free.
This has happened a number of times when Mistress K has pegged me. It doesn’t happen often, but if she wants to release me from the cage to let me cum I’m not going to say no. As a cage wearer the visual mind-fuck that comes from seeing my keyholder play with the key hanging around her neck is enough to tease me, but playing with the key to give me hope that you might release me is on another level.
Back to the cage. I mentioned that it’s strong for a reason. You can hold a vibrator against the device and it can enhance the experience, or bring the wearer to climax quicker. Silicone cages tend to absorb vibrations, so it doesn’t work quite so well with those.
If you’re lucky enough to be allowed to orgasm through anal penetration (don’t forget to ask permission before you do) having your urethral opening line up correctly with the front opening on the cage is important. You’ll be able to cum unimpeded, either all over yourself or into a hot, sticky mess below you depending on the position you’re in.
Top tip for keyholders - Put a gloved hand over the end of the cage as they cum, collect it all in your hand then feed it back to them. No-one likes waste!
Lightweight devices like Hera are great for more vigorous play. If you’re being pegged doggy style where it’s likely you’ll be bouncing around a lot you don’t want a device that will swing like a pendulum between your legs. You want something that will move with you. This is why Hera was her choice for me to wear knowing that I’d be on my hands and knees taking it from behind.
Cold hard steel
There are so many benefits of wearing a metal cage in general and a lot of the same positives apply here too. They’re easier to keep clean if you’re not released between pegging sessions, made of strong robust material that won’t flex or bend when you get engorged, and they can also vibrate beautifully when you hold a vibrating toy against them.
When I’ve worn a metal device and I’m lying on my back in the lifted, butterfly or full throttle positions the heavier steel cage can be a little distracting. It tends to flop to one side rather than staying central, but this also depends on the size of the cage you wear. A larger size will be heavier, which makes it more challenging.
OK, let's now flip everything that I’ve just said including myself in this scenario. I’m now on all fours on a bed eagerly anticipating Mistress K’s cock teasing my well lubed arsehole. Everything I said about the lightweight of our Hera cage can be reversed if a dominant wants their submissive to feel the heavier metal cage between their legs. It’s a power move and I’m here for it!
A metal cage like our S77, S100 or S75 all have open bar designs on the head of them. I’ve really enjoyed it when Mistress K releases the leash attached to my collar and clips it onto the head of the cage instead. This gives her greater control and a few well timed tugs ensures that my attention remains focused on her. Alternatively you can connect a leash to the cage and, while mounting him from behind, pull it while you ride him as an added reminder of who’s in control.
My nemesis - the adjustable spiked cage
I’ve discussed the S231 spiked cage in the post discussing the devices we’ve tried. In the wrong hands (or the right ones depending on how you view it) this cage is lethal. It has 6 spikes around an open end that can be adjusted so that they screw into the wearers cock.
The design has a number of benefits - the open end allows a dominant to tease the head of the wearer's cock and stimulate them if they choose to do so. You can do this with toys (urethral sounds, a vibrator, pinwheel, etc.) or your nails. Holding ice cubes onto their penis will help to numb it if that’s your jam, but please remember that pain is a signal from your body that something’s wrong, so keep that in mind.
And now to the inevitable, the downsides. Yes, these are very subjective, but this is my article and I’ll tell it to you straight.
When we tried this device for the first time Mistress K was very patient. She made micro adjustments to each screw while I was tied up, so it was far easier for her to access the bottom 3 screws. Unless you’re static I think it will be challenging to adjust these screws, but trust me, the top 3 screws will do more than enough.
After each turn of every screw she engaged in more tease and denial play. As you can imagine, it was damn hot and I got aroused…and engorged.
This is where things (for me at least) started to get more engaging. You can’t help but channel all of your focus when someone has that level of control over you. It’s mesmerising. Every time she elicited a reaction from me physically it caused more intoxicating pain. In the right environment, the right situation and with the right person you can reach highs that you didn’t imagine were possible. This was one of those moments.
So when Mistress K informed me that she’d be locking me in the spiked cage for our next pegging session I winced. I love to be pegged and I didn’t know how mixing that more extreme level of sadism would mix. Turns out that I didn’t have too much to worry about and neither should you if you’re being pegged by someone with excellent discipline, communication skills and a willingness to pay attention to the person they’re playing with.
After plenty of preparation she got me into the butterfly position with my legs resting comfortably on her shoulders and my idle hands folded behind my head. This gave her easy access to the cage, which she used much more sparingly than our previous session using it. You don’t need much, just a few twists and I’m fully committed.
The big benefit of this type of open ended cage (unlike the closed end S232 version) is that you have the choice of using the spikes. Knowing that they’re there plays a devious game with your mind. If you’re into psychologically torturing your play thing then this is certainly the device that you’ll want them wearing.
Pick a device that works best for you
The list above are the devices that I’ve most enjoyed wearing for different types of pegging play. You could want something with restricted access or fully open to explore other mischievous ways to tease him. Whatever you’re looking for, I’m sure you’ll find something that works for you on our site.
Consider what you want to achieve. If that’s making sure that a submissive is fully controlled and locked with no plan to release them then an enclosed metal cage would be my choice.
Sometimes you don’t know what you want until you’re in the moment, so with that in mind a silicone cage is perfect. If you’ve ever tried wearing a silicone device before you’ll know that they’re quite comfortable but won’t keep you securely locked. They’re too flexible. Maybe lean into that critique of them and whip it off if you feel inclined to touch their cock.
You make the rules. That applies to the cage wearer and the person wearing the strap-on. If you need any help or advice (that’s with picking a cage, not finding you a latex clad dominant to peg you - sorry!) please get in touch and we’ll do our best to help you find your new favourite pegging cage.
ABOUT THE AUTHOR
House Slave D
House Slave D is the co-founder of House of Denial and a long-time chastity lifestyle practitioner with over a decade of experience in BDSM dynamics and relationship trust.
D is passionate about sharing insights into the physical, mental, and emotional aspects of locked cock play. With a commitment to educating others on safe, consensual practices, he aims to build and grow a welcoming community, empowering cage wearers and keyholders (both new and experienced) to explore this wonderful kink with confidence and respect. He also likes snapping pictures and writing filth.
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